Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Mean People Suck!!!

Why do some people just feel the need to tear others down. Is that really how they makes themselves feel good? I know I always feel terrible when I may have said something to hurt some one's feelings.

Today was the big day! My picture of my FAT self was posted in the paper. Now before you go saying, "Ugh, there is another person putting herself down." That was the point of the article. It was a 'before' shot. I am working very hard on the 'after' shot. But being that this is the technical age, of course the pictures are online too, where dumb jerks have got to make their comments and make you feel bad. I'm not going to let it get to me.

I know the reason I am fat, fertility drugs, twin pregnancy, not eating properly and not exercising. This is not an excuse, it is a statement. The first year with twins, you put yourself on the back-burner. Right or wrong, it happens. The important part is realizing you are not taking care of yourself and doing something about it. So for all you "Anonymous" people out there making degrading remarks.....Put up or Shut Up!


  1. Please don't listen to the jerks out there!!!

    I am proud of you! Good luck on that after picture!!!!!!!

    Michelle :)

  2. People who haven't experience a twin pregnancy should keep their thoughts to themselves. I used to think that running after my twins would be exercise enough, but sadly it's not!
    Keep your head high and just worry about being healthy :)
    All the best

  3. You go Stacy! (BTW, Bruce said the same thing, saw the article and the comments and called those awful people lots of names with four-letter works.) We love you!

  4. You go girl!!! I like to think those "anonymous" people out there making rude comments like that are just jealous...they have to make someone else feel bad in order to make themselves feel better about themselves.

    And let me tell you, my 1st twin pregnancy just sucked the life out of my body. Between carrying those babies for 32 weeks and all the IVF meds (3 cycles worth), my body was in horrible shape. Then add in another twin pregnancy. My body is shot. Pregnancy totally kicked my butt!!

    And you're right about the first year with twins....it's all about survival and taking care of the babies. None of us are thinking about ourselves at that point.

    Hang in there...mean people do suck!!

  5. I tagged you in a meme on my blog!

  6. Stacy - People have to be mean in order to make themselves feel better. I think you look great in all of your pictures! It is interesting that people posted as "anonymous", they don't have the kahunas to be tracked down.

    (Because you know us twinmamas could take them out!) :)

    I think what you are doing is great because it is what you want to do. I agree that twin pregnancy, meds and putting ourselves on the backburner does take a toll on the body. I feel the same way and am hoping this year that I can get in shape. I am going for being more healthy and hoping that the weight will be part of that.

    I have prayed for you to hit your goals!